A 'Worthy Playboy' is a master at The Game of Life - a Game in which the rules are unspecified, and in which the PURPOSE is to figure out which rules apply TO YOU while attaining and maintaining primal, self-perpetuating Happiness.
"Playboy" denotes a man devoted to the pursuit of pleasure;
A traditional 'worthless playboy' is a tragic character, bereft of personality-traits and characteristics which would justify the company he keeps; he must therefore lavish his retinue with copious extravagance, substituting money-for-character, and replacing the necessity of being interesting with merely being impressive... and impressive plays-out very quickly.
"Worthy" connotes merit; honor; nobility, eminence; righteousness; deserving, and high-value;
To both be a playboy while exemplifying those characteristics of worthiness might sound like a daunting challenge, beyond the reach of mortal men; but it is not beyond YOUR REACH:
All it requires is an absolute dedication to achieving ongoing personal-satisfaction - through comprehensively understanding and appreciating YOURSELF, and ensuring your words, your actions, and your motives are all congruent with the person you wish to be; YOUR BEST SELF!
When you are able to objectively view yourself, and honestly say "I'd be delighted to have ME as a friend" you're almost there!
When you develop a healthy sense of "Self-Esteem" [the way you regard yourself, and what you EXPECT you should be able to accomplish] and your "Self-Confidence" [what you have PROVED to yourself you can accomplish] are appropriately lofty, and matched to each-other, you've attained 'Self-Satisfaction'.
Add to that the sense of Happiness, and you've become "Successful!"
That 'successfulness' is something which broadcasts itself loudly and clearly, without the need every to speak a word... it is the pure essence of self-love and self-appreciation which makes the possessor IRRESISTIBLY, COMPELLINGLY ATTRACTIVE to other people... because just being around someone who is THAT comfortable is addictive!
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