SeanMessenger is the Papa Bear and co-founder of LVO3.com. He's smart, sexy, and gets great gas mileage both highway and around town, and always has lots to say about lots of things. So buckle up. It's about to get rocking and rolling in here. And yes, that's one name. Just easier that way. Like Prince. Or Arod. Or Douchebag. :)
"I am not interested in being a "pickup artist." I am interested in the Evolution of Men. I teach men (and women!) how to make Dating Fun.
Finding happiness from your relationships with women may be the hardest thing to learn, and to teach, and I really feel we've cracked the code. We see it every weekend when guys leave our Bootcamps, exhausted and happy, and go right out and make the very first woman they see smile.
Every man deserves that power and that happiness. We are creating a community that men can be proud of, and women will be thankful for. And the bigger it gets, the better it is.
I've heard some really great people talk about girls, about the process of attracting women, as a great burden, like it's something you have to pscyh yourself up for and battle through. Like there are guys out there who thought like I did when I found that one great girl, like "whew, sure am glad that hard work is over. Now I can finally relax!"
I got into teaching because I know that's not true. Being an attractive man is not about putting on an act at certain times to impress people. It's about becoming that best version of yourself, that guy you wanted to be when you were 8 years old. I teach guys that this is all about finding out what is cool, what is passionate, what is already attractive about you, and then learning how to bring that out.
We are all born social. We are all born charming. The hard work is in uncovering that instinct and letting other people share in the vibe. And it can't just be something you try out. You can't just attract that great girl one day and then stop. You have to attract her every single day. And the day you stop is the day she leaves.
I do it every day. And it's not work for me. It's effort, but it's not work. I enjoy making girls happy, because they treat me well. And y'know what? That's what makes this all work for any man… it's a circle of good. You keep putting the good energy out, and it will come back to you.
This game is not that complicated. All you have to do is put a smile on her face and keep it there. It's up to you to make it happen."
Gia Love forever,
Sean Messenger
Papa Bear, LVO3 and The Gia Love Foundation